When Hunter’s mother, Rebecca Joseloff, knew her son would soon have a baby brother, she wanted to include little Hunter in this extraordinary moment. They arranged a unique delivery that would allow Hunter to witness her baby brother’s arrival into the world.
Midwife Nicole Lahey played a pivotal role in preparing young Hunter for the experience. Under careful supervision, Hunter watched videos of childbirth, learned simple terms (like “placenta”), and was introduced to basic anatomy concepts that would help her understand what was happening.
Joseloff and Lahey were mindful of ensuring that Hunter didn’t feel uncomfortable or repelled by the process. They wanted her to view childbirth as a natural and incredible event, and their approach played a crucial role in shaping her perspective.
When the day of the delivery arrived, Hunter was there to support her mother throughout the process. She provided much-needed entertainment and distraction, asking questions, playing with her dolls, and enjoying snacks during the waiting period.
After the baby’s birth, Joseloff and Lahey allowed Hunter to participate in skin-to-skin contact. They explained that newborns often find comfort and warmth when placed against the skin of their family members. Hunter eagerly joined in, holding her baby brother for the first time and falling deeply in love with him.
Some parents may have reservations about having young children present during childbirth, but Lahey believes it’s ultimately a decision for each family to make. Every family and child is different, and for those who do choose to involve siblings, it can create a profound and meaningful bond from the very beginning. Hunter’s story has touched hearts and serves as a reminder of the incredible connections that can form within families.
