Daljinder Kaur’s story is one of unexpected happiness that captured the world’s attention. After facing the devastation of three miscarriages, she had almost given up on her dream of holding her own child in her arms. The pain of infertility weighed heavily on her, and the world seemed unsympathetic. She recalls the hurtful stares and comments from neighbors and even her own relatives, who labeled her as “cursed” due to her inability to conceive.
Through it all, her husband, Mohinder Gill, stood by her side with compassion and love, reaffirming his commitment to her regardless of the circumstances. But the yearning for motherhood continued to haunt Daljinder Kaur. She watched her friends’ children grow into adults, and the absence of her own child left a void that often overwhelmed her.
The couple decided to stop trying for a baby after enduring three miscarriages. In those days, in 1970s and 1980s India, there was limited help and advice available for couples struggling with infertility. Daljinder resigned herself to the belief that she would never experience motherhood.
The journey was not without its challenges. The doctor at the fertility center initially hesitated due to Daljinder Kaur’s age, concerned that pregnancy could jeopardize her health. But her determination prevailed, and they proceeded with tests and treatments. Given her age and the absence of viable eggs, they turned to donor eggs and sperm.
The financial burden of IVF was significant, costing over £2,000 for each round, but the couple’s financial stability helped them pursue their dream.
Their first two attempts in 2013 and 2014 were unsuccessful, but in July 2015, against all odds and 20 years after her menopause, Daljinder Kaur received the news that she had conceived. The news was met with tears of joy from both Daljinder and Mohinder.
As a new mother, Daljinder faces the typical challenges of sleepless nights and the physical strain of caring for her child, given her age and mobility limitations. However, she embraces every moment of motherhood, cherishing the bond she shares with her son.
Daljinder Kaur’s remarkable journey to motherhood serves as a testament to the enduring power of hope, determination, and love. Against all odds and societal expectations, she fulfilled her dream of becoming a mother and, at 72, finds her family finally feeling complete.
